Historical Committee


BOOK REVIEW
by Rachel Waltner Goossen

A Family Torn Apart. 
By Justina D. Neufeld. Kitchener, Ont.: Pandora Press. 2003.

In my childhood I heard from my family the name of Justina Neufeld, a German-speaking Mennonite refugee from the Soviet Union who in 1948 had stayed for a time with my grandparents’ family in Mountain Lake, Minnesota. Justina had recently arrived from Holland, where Mennonite Central Committee workers had befriended and helped sustain her and many other refugees. As a seventeen-year-old newcomer to the MountainI Lake community, she was a few years old than my mother and her siblings. Justina earned her way as a household worker but also attended public school, where she quickly learned English and made remarkable academic progress.

Justina had been the youngest of ten children in her Dutch-Prussian Mennonite family in the Ukraine, and everyone in the Neufeld clan had
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experienced chaos and violent upheaval during the war. Fleeing the repressive Stalinist regime in 1943, Justina and six other family members had made a harrowing crossing to the Polish border, reaching temporary safety. But with the war still raging, the family splintered further as Justina’s mother sent her to stay with her brother’s family, who had recently settled in France. For the next several years, Justina lost contact with most of her siblings, as well as her mother, and lived in constant dread of deportation to the Soviet Union. Finally, in 1947, after years of uncertainty about her status and the fate of loved ones, Justina, along with her brother Gerhard and his family, entered the United States through the refugee assistance program of MCC.

In the years following her Mountain Lake sojourn, Justina stayed in contact with my grandparents, and by the late 1990s I became aware of her project to write the story of her earlier life. The experiences of her past—of the Neufeld family’s dispersion across North America, Europe, and parts of Asia—have until now been mostly privately-held memories. In this book, however, her experiences—and by extension, the terror experienced by many European Mennonites in that time—are shared for a broader reading audience. A Family Torn Apart is Justina’s unflinching tribute to her parents and her eight older brothers, sister, and great-aunt, “Tante,” who lived with the Neufeld family as their world shattered in the summer of 1941.

Justina was age ten that year, when the Soviets’ war with Germany began and Justina’s father—along with other Mennonite men of her village—was abducted. For the next two years the family lived under military occupation, sharing the grief of neighbors whose husbands and sons had also disappeared. As the German army began to retreat to the west, the Neufelds and many of their German-speaking neighbors fled for their lives. No one knew what lay ahead; they could only guess what they might need to survive. Justina recalls how on the last day in their home village of Gnadental, the family decided what to carry on their journey. Their Krueger clock was carefully wrapped and loaded onto the wagon. Two weeks later, one of Justina’s brothers, fearing that the clock and a prized sewing machine were too heavy for the horses, prepared to leave them by the roadside. Justina’s mother would not hear of it, insisting: “They will buy bread for us some day” (p. 113). Years later, Justina would learn that her mother and sister—after forced repatriation to the Soviet Union—had indeed managed to stay alive by trading the household items for food.

A Family Torn Apart is an apt title for the family’s unfolding tragedy. A reprinted torn photograph of the Neufeld family—taken before Justina’s birth—serves as the book’s cover and as metaphor for the narrative itself. The author, reflecting on the trauma of events sixty years ago, says that she could not have written her story earlier, “because the wounds of separation were too raw” (p. 17). She adds: “I knew from the beginning of my life that I was loved …. This closeness with my parents was a tremendous source of comfort to me in my years of flight and turmoil, but also made my final and unexpected separations from Papa and Mama more painful when they happened to me at age ten and at age thirteen. From my family I got the basic values that guided my life” (p. 197).

Now a U.S. citizen, Justina has put down roots in this country, but, as part of lifelong effort to keep connected to family members, she made several trips in the 1970s to see relatives in Kazakhstan. In 1995, she returned for the first time to her home community, Gnadental, a village of the Schlachtin-Baratov region of the Ukraine. Six years later, she and her husband traveled to the Ukraine once more, again gathering information and looking—after many years of few answers—for information about her father, Dietrich Peter Neufeld, who had been arrested by the Soviet State Police in 1941 and never been heard from again. Two of Justina’s brothers, Peter and Franz Neufeld, had managed to escape westward during World War II, but, in German-occupied Poland, both had been naturalized as German citizens and drafted into the German army. By the end of the war, they had disappeared, and, despite many years of trying, neither Justina nor other surviving family members managed to learn their fate.

Despite its wrenching narrative, A Family Torn Apart reconnects the Neufeld family through memory amplified by photographs, maps, sketches, and, above all, the author’s own resolute voice. Now a retired nurse and mental health care administrator, Justina Neufeld tells her story as a compelling cross-continental epic. Her book is a lament as powerful as the Psalmist’s plaintive cry, with which she opens her work: “From where will my help come? My help comes from the Lord.” In the face of unspeakable loss, she shows us profound grace in human experience.

Rachel Waltner Goossen teaches history at Washburn University, Topeka, Kansas.



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